Sexual Healing
By Robert Gerzon
When I was a young man, I suffered from a lack of understanding about
the true nature of sexuality. I had no idea where to turn for advice about
sexuality because I knew the culture I was living in was just as mixed up
about sex as I was.
I wish I could go back in time and have a conversation with that
struggling young man. I'd like to tell him the truth:
"You have a deep desire for an authentic loving relationship with a
woman and a belief in the healing power of love. You are going to
co-create a wonderful, passionate, loving relationship with a woman.
Together you are going to heal each other. You will discover your inner
lover, the part of you who knows intuitively how to be a great lover. Your
relationship will be even better than your wildest fantasies. It will be
everything you've dreamed of and more."
The possibilities of human relationship have turned out to be more
wonderful and far more profound than I could have imagined. The joy of
living every day with your best friend and lover can transform the darkest
day into heaven on earth. It's enough to give me hope that we humans can
eventually learn to love each other and co-create a happy home for
ourselves here on this planet.
For many years Christine and I have traveled the path of sexual
healing. We have also helped other couples and individuals experience
sexual healing. Although being in a loving relationship is certainly a
plus, you don't need a partner to experience sexual healing.
Love begins with loving yourself. Great sex begins with loving your own
body. Self-loving can become a totally natural and satisfying way to
explore your sexuality, whether you are in a relationship or not.
Scientific studies back up what we have discovered through our own
experience: loving and being loved have a magnificent ripple effect
through your entire being, enhancing every aspect of your life. You feel
more alive. Your mood brightens. You think more clearly. And you feel
closer to the divine Source of Love.
Modern life (including staring at a computer screen for hours a day)
keeps many people up in their heads. They are out of touch with their
body, heart and soul. They have limiting thoughts and beliefs which get in
the way of experiencing passionate, mind-blowing ecstatic lovemaking.
They become accustomed to one-dimensional sex. They may have a physical
orgasm but miss out on the passion and emotional connection that gives sex
meaning. Others feel affection and closeness during sex but seldom
experience peak excitement and full orgasmic fulfillment.
We coach our clients so they can experience the joy of total
multi-dimensional sex. Sex is a body-mind-spirit experience.
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On the physical level it's helpful to think of sex as a special kind of
sport. You need to be fit. You need to learn skills and techniques. You
get better with practice. You can improve dramatically with expert
coaching. Once you master the basics it's pleasurable, fun and great for
your health.
On the emotional level, sex is the ultimate heart-to-heart conversation
-- a deep expression of love and intimacy. Sex is Nature's way of helping
women and men open their hearts to honest, loving communication with each
other. What could be better for your self-esteem and for healing emotional
wounds than being loved just the way you've always wanted to be?
On the spiritual level, sex is the original sacrament of a universal
religion called Love. The fundamental spiritual practice of every religion
is to "Love one another."
Sex is a meditation, a Tantric yoga that can open the door to higher
dimensions of consciousness and oneness with the universe. Sex is a
tangible, bodily experience of divine love. You are worshiping the God or
Goddess in human form. You become part of something larger than yourself.
When a man and a woman make love they partake of the ultimate mystery of
creation itself.
When these three streams of physical sex, emotional intimacy and
spiritual worship flow together, a new experience of multi-dimensional sex
occurs.
Sexual energy is one of the most powerful forms of love in human life.
Our sexually confused society has conditioned almost everyone in ways that
keep them from enjoying their sexuality in the fullest and deepest way
possible.
If every man and woman on this planet were loved just the way they
wanted to be, just as often as they wanted to be, we would live in a world
inhabited by happy, creative, peaceful, caring people.
If you'd like to learn more about Sexual Healing and how to use your
sexual energy in a more conscious, loving way for greater intimacy and
personal growth please visit our
Counseling and
Coaching Services.
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